In Living Memory: Fatima Kasaem
As Muslims it’s on of our responsibilities to protect the environment. The MSA planned to take a small step towards helping the environment by planting a tree in front of the athletic center. What was planned to be a simple action soon turned into something incredible.
On April 12th 2010 our 24 year old sister Fatima Kasaem passed away. She graduated from NJIT, she walked the same halls that we walk, she sat in the same seats that we sit in and she took the same classes we take but she did so in away that touched the hearts of countless people.
Fatima’s influence reached everybody from her closest friends and family to people that never had the chance to meet her. Even when she was in a coma she spoke to people in away that woke everybody up and sent out a wake up call to everybody, we need to change.
Nobody could’ve guessed that we were remembering her. We laughed, we joked and we cheered as we dug the hole for the tree. If you passed by the gym between 2:30 pm and 4:00 pm you would have seen a large group of brother digging the hole while the sisters sat near by taking pictures and giving the brothers instructions on what should be done for the tree, it was truly a family event.
During our digging we came upon a rather large rock stubbornly lodged in the ground. Even though the rock didn’t pose any threat to our plans we joked by attempting to take out the rock. Omar Awad (Fatima’s Husband) kept joking saying who ever pulls the rock from the ground will be president of the MSA. It was a hard rock but Mousa and myself had a harder head; we refused to let the rock remain in its place.
As NJIT students we did what comes naturally, we started yelling out answers on how to pull the rock as if it were a physics problem. We all took turns shoveling and pulling the rock, an hour and a broken shovel later we finally pulled out the rock and everybody cheered. As we all went to put the tree in the whole a brother said “that was fun guys, let’s dig deeper and find another rock!” Laughter burst from all directions.
After planting the tree and watering it, we set a plack in memory of Sister Fatima. The tree which was at first planned for environmental reasons only was now a symbol of hope. Every time I walk by that tree now I cant help but stand by it for a bit to remember Fatima whom I never meet, to remember what she left us and to know that we have a beautiful family.
Even though some people usually think of death to be a sad event we saw it in a different light, we saw how beautifully you can live your life, how much good you can do in a short life time and to see the family that you have had all along. It is extremely difficult to describe the feelings and lessons that came out of this so I would like to share with you a short dialogue that I had with brother Omar a few hours after burying Fatima. Omar approached me and asked “are you doing okay?” I couldn’t believe it, this man who just lost his wife is asking ME if I’m okay so I said “yes thank god, how are you?”
His response was beautiful, with a smile he said “She’s fine and I’m fine.”
In Memory: Dr. William Spillers
Dr. William Spillers, distinguished professor and former chairman of the Department of Civil and Environmental Engineering passed away Tuesday, April 20, 2010. Bill began his career at NJIT as a professor and chairman of the Department of Civil and Environmental Engineering in 1990 and served in that capacity until June 1998. Prior to joining the NJIT faculty he was a professor of civil engineering at Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute. He received the Ph.D. from Columbia University in 1961.
A pillar of the NJIT university community, Dr. Spillers was an expert in structural mechanics and design theory. He was a registered P.E. in both New York and New Jersey and participated widely in professional activities including the American Society of Civil Engineers, the NSF Foundation Workshop on Computational Foundations of Architectural Design, and the Second International Conference on Civil and Structural Engineering Computing. Professor Spillers was named “Educator of the Year” by the Consulting Engineers Council of New Jersey, received a Guggenheim Fellowship and was a member of both Sigma Xi and Chi Epsilon. During his recent sabbatical leave (2008-2009) he completed a new book entitled Structural Optimization published by Springer-Verlag.
Always very active in every aspect of university life, Bill will be missed by his many students and colleagues not only for his numerous scholarly contributions, but for his sharp wit and never failing sense of humor. He is survived by his wife Joy and his children. Information regarding a memorial service will be announced shortly.
There will be a memorial service for Dr. William Spillers on Wednesday, May 5, 2010 from 4:30 p.m. to 5:30 p.m. in Ballroom B, following the NJIT faculty meeting. The Spillers family has requested that donations in Bill’s memory be made to the Breast Cancer Network of Strength charity (http://www.networkofstrength.org/information).
Please take a moment to visit Bill’s memorial blog (http://rememberingbillspillers.blogspot.com/), where friends, students, and colleagues can post their memories of Bill .
In Loving Memory:
Nia Haqq & Michael Muchioki
Michael, 27, and Nia, 25, had just returned from their engagement party in New Brunswick when they were slain on April 4, 2010.
Michael Muchioki worked for a software company in Downtown Jersey City. He was a member of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity and attended New Jersey Institute of Technology, as a student in the Albert Dorman Honors College. Muchioki loved the Dallas Cowboys and played football for Marist High School in Bayonne.
He had been dating Nia Haqq for five years after meeting her at Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority while she attended The College of New Jersey. Nia Haqq worked as an Associate Producer for the Digital Team of Nickelodeon.
The couple was engaged in December and were planning to marry in April of next year in Aruba.
Family and friends of the young couple, including Muchioki’s fraternity brothers, created a website in their memory: www.Lovemikenia.com. Visitors can also donate to the memorial fund to help pay for funeral costs for the couple by visiting the website.
Memorial services for Haqq and Muchioki occurred on April 7 and April 9 respectively. Nia’s was in Jersey City while Michael’s was in Newark, where the couple was buried together.
There will be a memorial for Michael Muchioki on May 2 on the Lower Green at 9 pm.






















