Tom Flusk
To say that Greek life has a large presence on campus is more than a simple understatement. Greek letters, advertisements, houses, tabling and events dominate the scene on campus. From the moment they approach campus for the first time and see frat row, everybody is put into a Greek life sensory overload. After being surrounded by all of these images for the entire fall semester, it is no wonder that so many freshmen are so eager to start pledging at their first opportunity in the spring.
Many of us freshmen would’ve started pledging last semester, if not for an NJIT rule banning such a thing for first semester students. This rule, created to keep students on task as they begin their first semester, seems like a good idea, and may have been at the time of its inception. A key part of becoming a true member of NJIT and gaining a sense of belonging however is making friends, and not being allowed to pledge makes it that much more difficult to make friends.
That sentiment aside, many freshmen were eagerly awaiting their first chance to pledge, and many of them sprang at their first opportunity to pledge, myself included. The very nature of pledging is secretive, so many of us didn’t know what to expect when we began. For most of us, it turned out to be a fantastic experience: We have been meeting new people, making new friends, and creating new memories that will be cherished forever.
A very large part of pledging is choosing one’s big. A big is charged with guiding the pledge they are assigned to through the pledge process. Big and little often create a very strong bond, as they spend a lot of time together both with and outside of the fraternity. Some fraternities tell you their big right away, and others do not. My fraternity did not, and our pledge class is currently trying to figure out who their bigs are.
I personally think that my big was the best out of all of them. My clues included videos of Busta Rhymes from YouTube, a picture of Chinese chicken, a limerick, Jewish beatboxing and Plants vs. Zombies. They were complicated to say the least, but I think that I have my big figured out, and now I am anxiously awaiting the ceremony when our bigs are finally announced, so that I can begin my various big/little activities.
For those of you who are currently pledging, have fun, I know I am. For those of you who are thinking of pledging, I highly recommend it. And for the few that had a bad experience, I feel badly for you, and I recommend trying another fraternity, because most of them are rather fun.

